(Optional) Demonstrate positive ways to resolve disagreements.

Demonstration should include

  • recognizing the causes of a conflict
  • exercising empathy
  • using listening skills
  • seeing someone else’s viewpoint
  • finding common ground
  • using “I” messages
  • using constructive communication skills
  • giving and accepting constructive criticism
  • brainstorming alternative solutions
  • negotiating and compromising
  • using a mediator when necessary. 

Process/Skill Questions:

Thinking

  • What is the importance of considering alternatives for conflict resolution?
  • How does conflict affect friendships?
  • What is an “I” message?
  • What is constructive criticism?

Communication

  • What are the results of forgiving someone?
  • What are the results of refusing to forgive someone?
  • What communication skills help you create positive alternative ways to resolve disagreements?
  • Why is it important to use “I” instead of “you” messages?
  • Why is constructive criticism important for growth?

Leadership

  • What conflict resolution strategies can leaders use when dealing with friends?
  • What skills are needed to compromise effectively?
  • What is the difference between empathy and sympathy?

Management

  • What steps can be taken to prevent conflict?
  • What are the long-term benefits of resolving disagreements positively?
  • What are the benefits of active listening?
  • When is it appropriate to provide constructive criticism?