Describe ways to integrate a newborn into the family.

Description should include caring ways to

  • celebrate the arrival of a new child by birth, blended family, adoption, or foster family
  • recognize the caregiver’s feelings, fears, and dreams or aspirations regarding a newborn child
  • prepare other children in the family for the new member
  • plan for childcare during the birth of a sibling
  • prepare a child to attend a sibling’s birth
  • reduce the stress of adjustments for the new child, the parents, family members, and pets
  • access resources for assistance
  • consider the bidirectionality of the parent-child relationship. 

Process/Skill Questions

Thinking

  • What are the consequences for an older child of welcoming a new baby?
  • Why is it important to anticipate the feelings and needs of other family members when welcoming a new child into the family?
  • How can parents integrate a new child into the family in caring ways?

Communication

  • What values and beliefs might influence people to become foster parents? Adoptive parents?
  • What factors might influence people to adopt or foster children with special needs?
  • What stresses might an adopted or foster child have regarding entering a new family?

Leadership

  • What adjustments do parents need to make to ensure the physical and emotional care of a new child?
  • What adjustments do other family members need to make to lessen the stress of a new child?
  • How can family members be encouraged to integrate a new child into the family in caring ways?

Management

  • What are some ways to prepare other children for the arrival of a new baby? For the arrival of an older child?
  • What steps can parents take to lessen the tension of a new (older) child’s first day and night in a new home?
  • What management skills do parents need to integrate a new child into the family?
  • How can parents prepare other children for witnessing a sibling’s birth?
  • How can parents make sure other children do not feel abandoned during delivery?